Mistakes are made. You are human, and humans learn by trial and error. If what you did or said caused yourself or another pain, then you do not want to repeat this. You change your ways. You make amends. You learn, “That did not work. There is a better way.” This is called evolution, and that is part of this experience you call Life. If you do not make mistakes, you are not stretching. Do not fear them. Expect them, for no human is perfect. Keep your motive pure. Strive to live and serve and interact from the heart, and when mistakes occur, you will know you were doing your best, but perhaps there is a better way. Shine on, dear light. You are so very loved.
I felt so heard today with this loving message Suzanne, thank-you so very very much <3 <3
I had been berating myself this morning (as per normal) over one thing or another that I felt I had done wrong. Along with this comes the constant arguing in my mind that I have with others.
I did ask for help last night to find out what it is all about as no matter how I try (with different tools) the mind goes back to its negative set point. Your message was a prayer answered and brought tears to my eyes along with a sense of calmness and a deep breath moment.
I also had another message too, while pegging out the washing :-) to see my mind arguments as rehearsals for a play/story so that when I do encounter situations I already know how to respond in a kind way. This also helped to alleviate the heaviness as I could begin to see things in a lighter and more calm way.
I will have to have this message close by from now onwards to remind me not to be too hard on myself and to know
"If you do not make mistakes, you are not stretching. Do not fear them. Expect them, for no human is perfect"
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