Are you holding them back, your loved ones who have passed, when you think of them so much and ask them to let you know they are around? In a way, but they understand. If you are desperately grieving, they will want to comfort you. It is a choice they make. When you used to chat, did you not give them a break and allow them to get on with what they wanted or needed to do? And so it is now. They will be around. They will pick up the line when you call. They see you. They check in on you. How would you like them to see you: miserable or adjusting? Which view will help them to smile? They are still part of your lives, you know, and always will be. Trust this and move forward together. You are so very loved.
Thank You… My oldest son passed in 1999 and I’ve often worried I was interfering with his journey with my inability to stop myself from missing him. But, lol… I think I feel him beside me as I write this. It’s a wonderful feeling. Much Love to you….
This is the answer to a question that has been very much on my mind recently.
Thank you Sanaya and thank you Suzanne for the peace of mind this message has given to me.
With Love and gratitude.
The love of my life is a dog, Winkles, who passed 5 months ago. I am having such a hard time letting her go. I miss her in every cell of my body. She was my support system and I feel lost without her. Your beautiful words of healing are comforting, but I am a skeptic and I wish, just this once, I could accept that my Winkles is here, still watching over me. Thank you for your comforting words.
Winkles truly was and IS in every cell of your body, Scott, because when you really examine what those cells are, they dissolve into vibration … they are the heart-beats of Awareness, and we are This Awareness, as is Winkles. Go for the experience of simply being (try my Journey of Consciousness on my gifts page), and know that from this place of pure being, you and Winkles can connect, and always have.
I was told that my dog companion would stay with me in spirit for as long as I needed. I felt him enjoy going everywhere with me, where he couldn’t go before, groceries, restaurants, etc. I didn’t ever have to leave him behind again, Friends saw him running free in the woods before they knew he had passed. I dreamed that I saw him and he came to me, and was solid and warm. He stayed with me happily as long as I needed and I don’t remember when that stopped. I feel I could still call on him if I needed now.