Death comes suddenly for some. Such a shock. It is so easy to live in denial that life changes. Preparations go unmade, words are left unsaid. This is the human way. Do not berate yourself for not allowing the truth of being to come to the surface. Missed opportunities are learning opportunities. They have brought you to the point of seeking, have they not? And what are you finding? That you are far more than human. Knowing this, you can say what went unsaid to them at any time, heart to heart, soul to soul, and they hear you, for all is the One Flow of Divine Love. Share your love freely in every moment, for life is about change and the flow of Love.
You are so very loved.
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So beautiful Susanne, i needed this message this morning, i lost my youngest beautiful son our baby 28 years old in a car accident, we are still in shock & yes denial somedays, we have connected with (Jordan) in spirit several times , he is faithful & has sent many signs ,it dosnt get easier , some days we can smile & laugh other days we cry a lot, we lived for our 2 sons,,
Ah, Bonney, so many of us can understand. We surround you with love and healing.
Thank you for these words, I have found that this is so comforting but also confirms my belief that our loved ones are always with us, listening and answering us when ever we reach out xxx
Thank you…
Absolutely true ? ? ?
So profound
I am very relieved to have found you….and your posts are very varied and relevant to my experience regarding my husband who “evaporated” after 56 years of being each others soulmates. There was a long and heartbreaking deterioration. He had Hospice care on and off because he rallied enough not to meet the “deadline” marked by hospice care in the home.
Your poem, that I read yesterday, mentioning the realization that he won’t come back from vacation, really struck a nerve because the grief tsunamis often make me realize that, on some level, I expect him to.
Today’s post was also close to the bone for me.
I’m very gratified that my bereavement councilor thought to connect me with You, and your insights…..and that it goes on every day, and I so look forward to the help, and the subjects, which show insights into the many-layered experiences and feelings left…..when THEY leave.
It’s comforting to believe in the continued presence; this is especially true because of having to stay home, with him on his favorite chair, surrounded by wonderful cards which honor him…..now that is where his urn has been placed.
Thank you, again.
Dearest Linda, surely your husband reads these messages with you and smiles at the healing.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this.
This one really resonates profoundly with me. I lost my husband in the blink of an eye, out of the blue. We went to work one morning and I never had the opportunity to speak to him again. It did indeed inspire me to seek, just as you have done after you lost your Susan. I am fortunate to have found you and the messages from Sanaya, a true blessing. Much love to you!
And sometimes it is not sudden. My days are filled with distractions as he continues to fail and I continue to act out the story. My best distractions are in the form of meditations guided by Suzanne and Sanaya and for a time, I remember who I am, and I go on with my other human distractions until I see his ematicated body sleeping, but still hanging onto life and I wonder what our soul contract was that is keeping him here? And my human heart breaks and I cry for awhile. And I reach out to the 24/7 Alzheimer’s line and she asks me how I cope, it’s been so long. So I tell her about Suzanne Giesemann and retell some of Suzanne’s stories and ask if she has read “The Real Alzheimer’s” and she tells me no. I let her know that it is a Must-Read especially for what she has chosen to do. And the conversation continues and I am reminded in the telling that this story is not all that I am. Nor is it all that he is. And everything is as it should be. and I am OK for a little while again, and on it goes. And I ask the same question that I have asked many times before, even before I knew what I know now, WHAT IS IT THAT THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE TEACHING ME. PLEASE, GOD, LET ME LEARN IT SO WE CAN MOVE ON.
Love to all who have come here.
… that you are not separate from this Power to whom you cry out. That you can dissolve into This Awareness and flow, knowing that believing Life should unfold other than what is happening is only accepting less than your fullness. You are so very loved.
I just lost my most wonderful father a little a couple of weeks ago.
I love knowing that he is here close and I talk to him often.
I ask his help in navigating how to help our mom and also his help in
carrying on his legacy. I do miss him terribly but am comforted to
know his passing was in God’s time. He was here for 87 wonderful
years. He was the absolute best dad a girl could ever ask for of hope to have.
Thanks for this beautiful message ?