The death of a loved one is a trying time for those on earth, no matter how enlightened you are. You share memories with the one who passes. You share love and concern. Concern yourself at this time with those who do not have the full understanding of this very natural transition. Concern yourself as well with yourself.
Share with others and remind yourself that death is a point of celebration for the one who will no longer have to bear the pain and darkness of life in the physical world. Know that they will be surrounded by love and loved ones who have preceded them. Life will be far easier now for them, and we do stress this word “life,” for life is indeed eternal.
Concern yourself far more with remembering the good times and know that you will share these again. Feel your grief, but do not become swallowed up in it. Allow yourself a period of sadness for the close contact you will miss, then pull yourself back to that place of love within yourself. Do this as a choice—for yourself—with your own thoughts. It is not necessary to suffer. Your loved one no longer suffers and would want you to know this. They look upon you with new eyes and wish you to know all is well. They are safe and loved in the arms of angels, and so are you, my friend, so are you.
This was wonderful for me to read. I didn’t believe in an afterlife, or at best I was skeptical. My husband died in April and a friend asked a medium she knows for a sign from John to me. It was among other things, lights flickering, which I now know to be common. The other message was about a small key ….. I’d forgotten that there was one in my change purse. This same friend had recommended your book Messages of Hope months before John’s death but I hadn’t read it. By the way, there have been many light flickering occurrences. The first when I was driving by our first home and the street light across from it started when I approached. When I was out to dinner with his sister and her family, the restaurant lights flickered and then went out. Dinner was free because they couldn’t run the credit card. I was reluctant to tell my sister in law but when I did, she said “John paid for dinner”. I could go on and on.
I couldn’t concentrate for months but took a trip in September back to Greece to visit a close friend. On the beach in Poros I started to read Messages of Hope and loved it. I love the messages, and the way you tell about your discovery. I think I am attracted to the fact that you believe in evidence and your naval background. I am a right brained person so my skepticism comes naturally. In addition, In addition, as a person who loves to travel, I enjoy the travels you and your husband take.
I just finished Wolf’s Messages. I think I was meant to read it. I live in Massachusetts and went to school in Plymouth. I know exactly where Wolf was hit by lightening. It is behind where the elementary school is. Years ago I was invited to an event with Maureen Hancock, however, my skeptical side declined. I’ve now signed up to go on November 20. My husband always wanted to go to Lake Louise and in fact I was invited a few weeks ago by my friend in Alberta to go next August. As I said I lived in Greece and have been to Crete including the Palace of Knossos and the monastery.
Your writings and daily Facebook messages have helped me form my developing view of the afterlife. Most of all they have comforted me in my grief. I speak with John all of the time, and although I thought his answers were just because I knew him so well after 39 years of marriage, but I am less skeptical now. A friend encouraged me to see a medium last summer, and although I went in, hopeful and skeptical, I know now the messages were John speaking to me.
I am surrounded by the love of family and close friends. Love is such a powerful healer and tool. Thank you for yours, it is a great comfort.
I needed this today. ❤️❤️
Thank you Sanaya and of course Suzanne.
What a beautiful message. My father is nearing the end of his life and is very afraid. I plan to share this with him to help bring comfort to him.
Thank you for all the precious gifts you provide through these daily messages. It is so beneficial to me. I am grateful. It is always so nice to her I am loved beyond what I can imagine.
With love and gratefulness,
Stacie
Beautiful thank you so much for your Beautiful words?
Thank you for this beautiful reminder. It’s sometimes hard to ignore that dark pull toward the rabbit hole where sadness lives. It’s those times that I selfishly want me son here with me . I then focus on making the shift in my heart rather than letting my head cloud the truth.
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My mom died suddenly on April 29th, 2019. I miss her terribly and am desperate for some kind of “sign” from her. I carry so much guilt over the circumstances of her death and i am determined to own that guilt until the day i die. Everyone keeps telling me at least i have all the memories, and yes my mom was the most beautiful train wreck you would ever meet, but i cant bring myself to think about her or reflect on memories of times we shared… The second i form an image of her in my head i shake it off just as quickly otherwise the pain is too much to bear. Im terrified i will forget what she looked like or how happy i felt just being in her presence or how she made me feel lived no matter what i said or did or how she may have been feeling. I dont know what to do so i just block everything out as much as i can and try to focus on anything else. I know this isnt healthy but i cant do anything else. I just want to be able to communicate with her somehow and know its real.
Hi Tanya. I understand what you are saying, but “owning guilt” is so damaging and serves no purpose. Seeing the bigger picture and forgiving yourself in an instant from your mom’s new viewpoint will help both of you. I’m having my assistant send you a link to my January monthly mentoring session. It deals with the passing of my dog, which is can’t be compared to your mom’s passing, but the TEACHING in that session about why it’s so important to FEEL what you’re dealing with for your soul’s growth and your human sense of peace applies directly to what you’re going through. Please watch it and decide not to block anything. Clear out all these low vibes so you can communicate with her! xxoo