Death is not the end.  You seek answers.  You want to know, “Where did my loved one go?  They cannot be gone forever!” and you are right.  No body lasts forever, but the soul is eternal, for it is part of a larger being … of be-ing, itself.  Seek this being.  Pure being knows only love.  Seek to know this state and you will find where your loved one has gone.  Does this mean they are far away, unreachable?  No.  This means they are closer than they ever were, yet always were, before they discarded the body, which only seemed to separate you.  “But I want them back!” You cry in your grief, and it is the life you envisioned that you grieve, and the presence.  Envision a life now with them always within your knowing.  Always only a thought away, and in this way know that they do not “come back” for at the soul level, they have never left you.  Your heart knows this.  Now let the mind catch up. 

You are so very loved.