So many wish to take their own lives when a loved one passes. So closely bonded are you that you feel as if a part of you and in some cases, the whole of you is gone. May it help in some way to know that they are closer than your breath, as near as your thoughts, and most certainly connected to your heart.
Do you know why you are still here and your loved one is not? Your soul made this decision, and you have yet more learning and loving to do. The pain you feel is an indicator of this. Your loved ones on the other side are patient now that they have the greater perspective. To them your absence is only the blink of an eye. To you it seems an eternity, but you have all of eternity to be together again.
Allow Spirit to decide when you will be reunited again and enjoy a most blessed and fruitful reunion. In the meantime, breathe deeply often and pray, “Oh, Spirit, may I feel your presence. Tell me what I have to learn from this time. Show me how I can grow and serve as a result of this pain. I am so grateful for the love we shared, that we continue to share, and will always share.”
Love is eternal, as is Life. You have a Lifetime to be with your love. This is but a parenthesis in eternity.
This was very timely for me. since my daughters passing I have come to understand why a parent would take their life after losing a child. for me it has remained as a “backup plan” that I more recently have been giving more thought to. I probably would never have acted on it because I know that is never part of anyone’s life plan, but still I was thinking about it some more this morning. After reading this, which couldn’t have been a more direct response to my thoughts, I have the answer and know that I must remain on the ride until it is over. Thank you!
Surrounding you with strength, courage, and love, Robert. Grateful this message was helpful.
in the presence of the pure, unconditional Love of The Creator there are no consequences. Love is.
I lost my son to suicide 4 1/2years now.
Is been really hard miss him so much.
Thank you for this , I have a diary in which I’ve written down the prayer to Spirit. I really needed this as I have often questioned “why am I still here” ?
It is an honor to know all this while still being in human form. I can’t thank you enough.
Intersting that this came when it did. I have recently read Bava’s Gift and Syntropy: The Message if Love. Two books offered through the ICRL. While both helped, this message clearly captures the dynamic. Very timely, yes it seems like an eternity from here. The main point for me, is how to find meaning again. This topic is brought up in the Syntropy book. Anyway, thanks Sanaya for sending this signal.
I’m thinking strongly about letting death come and take me to the other side. I’m worried about my decision effects in my lovable and beautiful 5 years old daughter…
I hope to be with here all the time I can and help her cope any circunstance that she will confront during her life.
I love her sooooo much!!!