At times you must make decisions for another who cannot do so for themselves due to incapacitation. You struggle so mentally, questioning, “Am I doing” or “Did I do the right thing?” And we ask you: What was your motive? Did your actions come from the heart? From an inner knowing that this was the best decision for the greater good? Then please, we ask you, release your mental and emotional struggling, for you have done the very best for your loved one that the human/spirit can do. What good does it do to continue questioning your decision? Trust us, when you follow the heart, you are listening to the soul. It is where all souls are connected, and when decisions are made from love, then the soul of your loved one approves.
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About the Author: Suzanne Giesemann
Thank you. I had to sign DNR papers when my husband was in the hospital. He was suffering, not getting better. I felt terrible about doing that. I didn’t know what else to do. I did my best to save his life.
This came at a critical time for my family. We have all been struggling with the passing (on to her next phase) of my 17 year old daughter last year. In the past few months my mother (age 77), normally kind and loving to all, has become verbally and physically abusive, and delusional among other things. We decided to move toward an involuntary psych. eval. because she refuses do so voluntarily. This has been an incredibly difficult time and decision. I found comfort in this Sept. 6th message and forwarded it to my dad and brother (who are in WI where my mom is. I live in FL) and they appreciated it as well. Today my mother was escorted to the hospital by the police following a legal hearing (she did not know about). Our decision, while extremely difficult, was made in a place of complete love for and respect of, my mom.
Throughout her life she has sent out so many “echoes of love”….many each day….until this began. Now what comes from her mouth is acrid negativity and anger.
I’m not sure the lesson for all of us, but I do appreciate the calming words of SANAYA, and the many signs from my daughter that all is as it should be.
As the police arrived at my parents’ home in WI and I was on the phone with my brother, 3 enormous bright yellow butterflies fluttered outside my window, always a way my daughter’s spirit reminds me to BE in peace.
Sent in love and with so much gratitude.
Wow, Tava, I’m so sorry about these challenges, but clearly Spirit is guiding your decisions and you are well aligned with your own inner guidance as well. Surrounding you with Love, Suzanne