You carry regret for words said to one who has passed that you wish you could take back. You hold remorse for actions taken that may have caused harm, whether emotional or physical against one who has passed. Trust us, they feel your remorse. They see the pain you carry like a stone on the chest. From their new perspective there is great understanding. From their new perspective they are aware of your thoughts. There is no need to carry that stone, that pain any longer. Know that in their state of being now you can still talk to them. Get it off your chest. Have a heart-felt conversation and free yourself. They know how healing this will be. There is already forgiveness from the higher realms. There is no need to wait until you meet face to face. Find freedom now.
You are so very loved.
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The love ❤ of Spirit which passeth all human understanding is an immeasurable treasure.
If the person who has transitioned was having an affair and unfaithful to their spouse and the spouse finds out the transitioned person was unfaithful after they passed on, how does the transitioned feel about what the hurt they have caused.
All those across the veil are very much aware with a big picture view of how their actions affected others. They feel what those others felt and wish to make amends.
I couldn’t believe my eyes when I read the Daily Way today. My dad is across the veil and I decided to finally ask him how he is communicating with me in ways that I might be missing. When he was alive, he could make the sound of the mourning dove and it sounded identical to the real thing. I often hear the mourning dove and think of him but wrote it off as coincidence. Today in meditation, I asked if that was him when I heard the dove and an hour later I opened my inbox to the beautiful dove associated with this post. This was such a blessing Suzanne, thank you for being such a bright light!
I often say to my husband that I am so very sorry for my stubbornness and maybe harsh word’s., and that I was not able while he was still with me to say I am sorry.
But on the other hand I say to him also that I forgive/ forgave him. There are always two if you have an argument. I am sure he smiles at me now with his kind of special smile he had when I forced myself to say sorry.
He was always easy to forgive but I hang on sometimes, like women do ! ?. But I know for sure that we are good. and of course I say so often that I love him.
Wow .. that was fantastic Suzanne and Sanaya.
My parents passed away in 2020.
This post has great meaning for me.
This was a deep message for me.
Thank you.
For years I lived in a family where the mother dominantly determined what was good for us. I had no idea she didn’t want the best for us children. She took advantage of our innocence and kindness and I only found out much too late. I distanced myself from her and went on my own but her compulsion continued throughout my life. Until I said to myself: stop: NO I don’t want this anymore; I am no longer a victim!! I decide for myself what I want and do. I take that responsibility for my own life…..
Then I felt the change. When she died, my anger and disgust disappeared and gave way to understanding the lessons she taught me. Apparently I needed a hard lesson and she had the arduous task as “dark angel in my life” to give us those lessons. I have forgiven her in a prayer….forgotten now what has been said, but that will take a while….
Suzanne, again: Thank you for your kind words, they help me a lot!!
What a blessing to come to this realization. Peace.