Do you stand your ground or go along with the crowd?  That depends on motive.  What will serve the greatest good?  Is your motive self-serving or Self-serving?  Quite often individuals must make sacrifices for the good of the whole.  This too shall pass.  Hold in your heart the awareness that you are part of something far greater than your self, your family, your community … yes, you are part of humanity, but it goes even beyond the human skin … all is one expression of Love.  To see this results in decisions that are aligned with the highest Truths.  You are so very loved.