If it bothers you, there is meaning. Do you see? You give meaning to that which may have no meaning to another. Giving meaning to experience is how you grow. Or not. Through meaning you make choices, you judge, you act. If something is bothering you, you have assigned the meaning, “This is wrong,” or “This should not be this way.” And perhaps you are right. Or perhaps you are not right in someone else’s mind. It all depends on the meaning assigned, and meaning is malleable. How might that which bothers you change if you change the meaning you give to it?
You are so very loved.
There sure are many places where another might not see you as “right”. THAT however is not YOUR problem, unless you want to make it one.
That said, it may or not hurt to hear what another has to say to you about such “issues” that were (or not) “issues” in your mind. They may, or not, have points you would want to include in your way of being, of living. Chances are, you are not all wrong but likely they are not all wrong either, because the kicker is – none of it is all wrong. And there is likely room for improvement in all we do because that is often what it takes to get to truth when we don’t hear our guides supporting better choices.
But – being human IS a being of free will as well. Your will may be in line with what guides would have told you. Yet, when it is not in line, your guides have you covered in the event you wander off the rails too far. It is in that distance, it became most important to harken for the voices of your guides, rather than the opinions of other earthly beings if we hope to get back on track. You do not have to – no. However, it behooves your life to learn to listen – for, if not to – the voices of your guides, so that you keep track of where and when you were informed. Still – Think of that as breadcrumbs in the forest. Being lost is a matter of memory eaten up by other factors. YOU may well be one of the factors.