What you judge in another, if you are honest, you often do yourself. Why is this? It is far easier for the human to find fault outside of themselves than to deal with fears, doubts, and uncomfortable feelings within. We are not telling you to cease doing what you do. That is how you learn—by trial and error, but you will learn far more quickly and err less frequently if you notice that which you criticize in others.
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Thank you for this insight.
I do find that this is utterly true but not all projected judgement feels completely introspective. I mentally debate my judgements constantly. My work requires that I judge people on their performance. This not only includes daily task, but their relationship/peer interactions. I am so often torn because I am judging them as part of my job and maybe on a deeper level, for low performers, resenting them for having to conclude that they’re not able to perform appropriately. I am left with low vibrational emotions that I can hardly identify but just don’t feel good/right. Could you provide some insight here?
Much appreciation!! ;)