Anniversaries give you a chance to ponder and review. What has changed since that date upon which you place importance? The meaning you give to dates and events determines your growth. The goal is to move forward, finding solutions to that which keeps you separated, in pain, suffering. How might you come together? How might you see each other in a different light? How does this anniversary help you to evolve? If you only focus on the events and the suffering, there is no growth. If the suffering leads to new insights about the reasons for existence and who you truly are, then there is purpose. Mind your thoughts, why don’t you, on special dates and every moment, and milk this experience of LIFE for all its worth. You are so very loved.