The task, if you wish to evolve, is to upgrade your conditioned thoughts.  There are those that arise continuously from the sea of potential, and those that go round and round within the finite mind, shaped by beliefs and expectations.  What if each new arising did not encounter the conditioning?  Why then, you would know only love, just as you did when freshly emerging into this experience called life in a human body.  But for now, the conditioning has taken over.  How to overcome it?  Become aware of each thought and notice how your expectations continue to be met.  You expect certain people to behave as they will, and lo and behold, they do!  There is only one way to out-picture your world the way you want it:  change your in-picture.  Upgrade your expectations and throw in some sense of wonder and miracles, and miracles will occur.  This is manifestation at its best. 

You are so very loved.