What is holding you back?  Only your thoughts.  Begin with examining the thoughts you have for someone else which may be filled with disdain.  Know that these thoughts are a projection of that which you do not wish to see in yourself.  Point the finger in the other direction and be willing to ask Higher Consciousness for insights as to the cause.  Do you wish to no longer be held prisoner by your thoughts?  Surrender.  This is not an act of weakness, but of great strength.  Ego holds you in its talons, but spirit flies free. 

You are so very loved.