It takes an effort to be pleasant at times. And it is at times like this that the effort brings you exactly what you need. Perhaps you do not feel like smiling. Events in your life are dragging you down. In smiling and putting the focus on another, you create in them the reaction of smiling back. A connection has been formed, reminding you that you are not alone in this full-bodied experience called life. Find the connections and you will find a reason to smile.
You are so very loved.
A soul spirit, (who looked very much like Sadguru) stood near the footend of my bed whilst i was sleeping. I swear he willed me to waken to his presence because for no other reason did i wake an turn to find him standing there, and to find myself not totally surprised.
His lead leaned forward just a wee bit and he said, “You could be friendlier ya know”.
Hummm… that threw me for a loop.
I knew i was rather “unsociable” at times. That was quite natural for me. As well, i actually possess a type of shyness. And here i am being told i am, at times, seen as unfriendly. This means that, up to now, i have not been making a conscious effort to be more than i have made myself to be.
That felt disturbing.
I need make that effort. I need remember to make that effort. Trying to make that effort is not good enough. It needs to become natural to me.
It isn’t yet. 🥴
So are you Suzanne