You look at another and say, “Why would you want to do that?” And they look at you with equal wonder or perhaps even consternation and say, “Why would you want to do that?”  Each of you has opposite desires.  On the surface, you cannot understand the other’s desires, but that is because you are choosing to perceive only from the surface.  You are multi-dimensional beings.  You can choose to remain on the surface or dive deep.  There is only One Mind when you go as deep as you can.  From there, as you rise back to where you ended up out there on the surface, choose your perspective.  Of course, you can understand why the other wants to do anything when you see through their background, their beliefs, and their circumstances.  If you are feeling frustrated by another’s desires, become them for a while and perhaps you will change your tune.  You may not make their choices, but with understanding comes compassion and peace.