When you reach out to another thinking that person is the only one who can help you, this is limited human thinking.  Yes, you may have been drawn to them for a reason.  Whether or not that reason becomes clear, if help does not come in the form you think you need from them, then there is a better answer for you.  That is how it works.  Now listen and watch for guidance.  Watch how things unfold.  You will look back and see the blessing in not getting what you want.  Have you not yet learned to trust The Process?  That is okay.  Evolution is ongoing and you are so very loved.