It is all relative. You can write that down. Do whatever is necessary to remember that yes, you may judge what you have vs. another, what has happened to you vs. another, and there will always be differences. You are Source having experiences. Why would they all be the same? You learn and grow and stretch and flow because of the differences. You may not like some of them. You may experience what the human considers envy, but the soul knows these differences as interesting, at times delightful, and always worthy of further exploration to see how you might create something different now that you have seen what can be different.
You are so very loved.
As you age, you gain insights. You cannot help but gain insights be they effects of how you see others or see yourself. And as you are gaining insights, those things that gave you insight, that made you “see”, will have already changed… evolved or digressed, leaving you with only insight of “moments in time.”
Those moments were meant to give you insight. They were meant for you. They were meant to show you how you are a part, an integral part, of the whole, not of “the moment.”