You want to know what gift to give to another? Hear them. Appreciate them. Let them know they matter. Is this not what you desire from others? Get outside the boundaries you have erected around yourself. These do not exist in the spirit world, where all know they are the Light of Consciousness and cannot be separated. Could you see this Light in others now with your physical eyes you would rush up to others and soak it up. You can do that now even while blindfolded. Do so and see how this changes things for you. You are so very loved.
Well, that would be great if one wasn’t going through being bullied, rejected and traumatized in this human life and as we speak! If one never had a mother like the one on the picture and never arrived to the point of being loved as an adult, instead the longer one lives the less there’s a chance of experiencing any love only obligations, blame, expectations to accommodate others, give endlessly with not even a recognition…. when will it be that person’s turn to be surrounded and immersed in LOVE before the will give it, once again, to others? And I’m sorry, doing sipping of divine (3 min or more) so far did nothing to change. Like you said, the 3rd E (experience) is needed and it’s not happening! Similar to christianity or going to the temple, or doing anything else spiritual… you can pray endless prayers, or chant, light candles, sit on the mountain, and plea to God/heaven with your arms in the air or on your stomack…. noone is answering and sh*t continues happening!…
I hear you. I feel you. I love you. That’s true.
Thank you.
Well O, have you ever looked at how very much and very often, the learning between parent and child is a two way street. In my own family, for example, my parents and brothers stopped hugging etc each other when i was very young. BUT – When as a teen, i had a very demonstrative friend who often gave loving hugs, or squeezed my arm affectionately. I decided i was totally capable of bringing such loving actions home to remind my family. And i did. And it eventually took. We all started hugging again. Not in pretence. But meaningful hugs. No one asked what brought this about. It just took. They liked it.
When, (as it sounds like you are) tired of doing things one way… try another. We know nothing will change until you make changes. When you make changes — other things change. It might be a small start but it’s a start.
Yes it does continue to happen…
Love your picture. I had a wonderful golden retriever, smiling and loving me. I hope yours continues to love you.