“I can appreciate that you feel that way.” Would this not be music to your ears from another if you were to state an opinion? No matter how the other feels, at least you were heard. Can you appreciate that each of the seven billion of you sees things just a bit, if not a great deal, differently? If you can appreciate this, then apply this phrase in your interactions with others and as you read your headlines. It does not mean you agree. It does not mean, “You are right,” and it does not mean, “You are wrong.” It means, “I hear you, and I understand you have a point of view.” How does it feel to be heard? How does it feel to be appreciated? This is an excellent step toward oneness, the field out beyond right and wrong and differing points of view. No right. No wrong. Just experience. You are so very loved.
Can we send energy to our children for a companion, my son is 42, recovering, veteran and lonely, breaks my heart
I realize this isn’t related to your above message, thought id take a chance,
Thank you,
You’re not taking a chance Pam. It is actually very relative.
There are many who will pray for your son’s companion to arrive if one or more has not yet arrived. It will happen. Trust.
Don’t let this lonliness or lonesomeness break your heart. He is going through changes inside, most assuredly and they will be changes he needs to make for some/whatever reason. Just allow his heart time to journey to where it needs to find his/the answers.
And you can trust he will and we will make efforts together where and how we are able, because we are able and willing.