When you are in the presence of one who is displaying less than optimal behavior, how do you react? Do you withdraw and seethe or squirm, or do you go on the attack, responding with aggression? Within the body, cells do not see good or bad, they simply seek balance—homeostasis. When in the presence of one who is out of balance, there is no need for fighting. Simply surround that one with love, seeking balance. If your resistance is down, you may lash out, withdraw, or display some other behavior which only adds to the imbalance. In such a case, picture the cells of the body, which innately know what to do. Simply be love, and within your own system balance will be restored.
You are so very loved.
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Thank you for all your words of wisdom. Thanks to you I have tried this and it has worked. I was amazed how it turned out and surprised at how much better the outcome was. I remember an article that said to look at the faces around you and when you came across someone who looks sad or stressed imagine sending them love and peace from your heart to there’s and because we are all connected watch how there face changes. Imagine if we practice this how many people we can give moments of Love and Peace. Today when someone offends me I try not to react to negative energy. I find when I do not try to control the outcome it works out so much better. I try practicing and looking at situations as lessons. I ask myself “what can I learn from this”? When I choose Love it always works out better. I also tell myself “progress not perfection” “isn’t that interesting” “this to shall pass” are some of the things, thanks to you that get me through tuff times. I’m sending much Love and Peace from my heart to yours.
Namaste ????✌
I really need this at the moment and believe your YouTube video popped up in my feed at my darkest hour. I’m coping with my beautiful 17 year old daughter who wants to die as she doesn’t see any point in living other than us her family who are keeping her here. I’m terrified all the time but trying so very hard to seek guidance.
I have been in such a state over a family situation. One in which I feel hurt, angry and bewildered. Last night I decided to try to send love to all involved. This morning, literally 4 or 5 seconds before I opened ‘The Daily Way’ email, I asked for it to please address my issue. It did. It was exactly what I needed to hear.
I will seek balance and I will surround those involved in love.
Thank you Suzanne, thank you Spirit.
S
Dear Suzanne,
Thank you for today’s post which– as is invariably the case with your messages — spoke to me directly with uncanny timing.. I am so grateful for the transformative healing words you so generously share.
Today’s message brought to mind some beautiful, wise words of Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hahn, whose life and work embody the spirit of profound, compassionate love.
‘When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you
don’t blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not
doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or
less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have
problems with our friends or family, we blame the other
person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will
grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive
effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason
and argument. That is my experience. No blame, no
reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you
understand, and you show that you understand, you can
love, and the situation will change.’
Thich Nhat Hanh
this is exactly what has happened to me last night and today, i am in the presence of someone who is out of balance. I suggested to them to look within and was met with dark lashing out energy. Thank you so much for this …. i simply be love …. much love to all of you
Thank you so very very much ! I am learning so much and applying it to my life experiences! The instruction is helping me change my life! Thank you and I send out My Love!
Thank you
I have been so very annoyed with some one. I must remember this when the situation comes up again.
Hello
You seem to come at the optimum time, having had a few difficult weeks and last week being an extremely testing one for me. To read this yesterday and realise I turned to actually be doing this very thing, restoring love for myself and others in the battle field. It gives me warmth and encouragement that I am trying to work within the field of awareness and connection. It can only be this way feeding love is much much kinder to oneself than feeding ugliness and ego.
Thank you so much once again.
Beautiful realizations, Maria. Blessings.
Hello!
Just found this website and love this message. I will definitely try it and try it again and again until it is my automatic response, love from ireland ??
Thank you for this