When a loved one dies tragically, one can focus on this to the point of obsession. Do not let this become your main memory. One moment in a lifetime may have high drama, but it is the countless moments when you shared a laugh, a hug, a moment of tenderness, joy, connection that they now wish you to focus upon. Yes, they wish this, for they see you, know your thoughts, feel your feelings far more so than when at your side physically. “Do not remember me this, way, please. My body may no longer be here, but the part that has always stirred your heart—my soul—walks with you still.” You are so very loved.
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Thank you for sharing this Beautiful message. My oldest son passed on 9/9/2021 At 22 years old. Exactly what this messages states I have heard my son say, when days are harder than others. I’m truly grateful for my gifts and my spiritual and healing path. I know my son is always with me especially when I ask. Thank you for being here Suzanne and confirming everything I feel and have learned. Thank you Thank you Thank you
Our oldest son Joe passed away August 20 2017 . I’ve been dreading tomorrow as it’s his anniversary, 8 long years . Some days it feels like yesterday and other days it’s as if it’s been one million years have gone by .
I’ve been reliving that day for awhile , I actually do that more than I should, it’s a battle within myself .
I don’t want to focus on “that” day but it’s hard not to .
I definitely feel what Suzanne posted today was meant for me to read . All I can do is my best.. God knows a piece of my heart is completely shattered. I love and miss you so much Joe ! You are and always will be the love of my life ❤️
My husband passed away years ago & even tho I had ‘help’ dealing with it, I continued to focus on the traumatic circumstances. It’s just recently when sharing with a friend how we met/got together, that I suddenly realized I had made a major ‘shift’ – enjoying telling the ‘fairy-tale’ type story of the ‘beginning’! What an OMG moment! Shortly after that, a writing workshop option was to write about “a ‘muse’ or ‘guru’ — totally unexpected”. I wrote about my husband and I as the period of time we were together (way too short), was when my ‘creativity’ came out. Only a few lines into the story, it became a letter to him, with all the good memories of us meeting/getting to know each other. This shift has happened since reading “Wolf’s Message”, and starting to do things with you! Thank you so, so much Suzanne & Sanaya — today’s message, especially, spoke to my heart & meant so much —
Thank you so much for this message! My son passed away almost 8 years ago in a very tragic car accident. My mind wanders back to that day, but I try not to hold that image. It is so true that they want us to remember them in laughter and love. Thank you for this beautiful reminder Suzanne & Sanaya !!
It hit me rather hard when mum was passing. We were thousands of miles apart physically and admittedly, in earthly-life ways, that same distance was symbolic. However, each of us had a deep love snd respect for each other of which we crazy-rarely spoke. You’d have thought the speaking was too risky when in fact, we had quite different outlooks on life and how life could be lived or expressed.
When she had passed – our relationship gained a sudden degree of clarity that took no time to perceive. She had been my mother in this life but that was never ALL she was. As i stood around the family and friends she supported, and thought of the heart she put into her life, it was the most gentle overwhelming breeze of senses one can feel.
Since then, she comes to me like that same breeze – knowing she still does not understand my life choices, but she has made it very clear so that i can know she is working with me, on a soul level. None of our differences matter, to either of us now. We had let earthly concepts rule our relationship… but that no longer exists.
Thank you for this reminder. The anguish from that day can rise up and set the tone for the whole day. It’s been 8 years since that day, and I try very hard to go through the good memories when that happens. He reminds us that he is the sum of his whole life, not just that terrible last thing.